I simply chose a cloud picture from my files for today. To document the interaction with a photo would have been invasive, or beside the point.
As I walked along the edge
of the park this afternoon, two very young gay men were walking ahead of me.
They were obviously enjoying being together and one reached for the
other’s hand ─ such a common show of affection. There was a moment of embarrassed
hesitation. What was so clear is how both did not know if it was ok to for
two men to make an innocuous public statement. It was disconcerting and painful
to see. I have thought for some hours now about how we are socialized to withhold
the expression of even the most basic and loving gestures. And, how standards of disapproval
and rejection sometimes underlie fulfillment in human interaction.